Ask Andrea A recurring column on intimacy, desire, and connection from Peak EDU. Hi Reader, This Week's Question "Andrea, over the last couple of years, I’ve felt my desire ebb more and more, with minimal to no flow. I don’t feel like anything is necessarily wrong with my relationship (we’ve been together for 8 years, married for 5). We fight as much as I think any couple would, but overall we’re loving and caring. We cuddle often, hug, and kiss each other goodbye every day, and we’re...